If she says "what if I change my mind?" I think the best answer is "in that case you'd have some work to do to convince me to change mine"

This is all good Holding, and I would definitely try to find any child-related keepsakes she's discarded and put them in a safe place for you.

Acc

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015