What should I be doing now? (Filing for D soon)

[Coconut]

wow, this was a crazy weekend for a few posters... man I don't miss those days.

One post talks about his WW attacking him and punching him in the face before leaving and him having to call the police to give them his side because she was lying about it. And then another running into his WW and OM while walking in a park with his son.

I went through this kinda circus myself, I'm much bigger/stronger than my wife, but found three different circumstances where she physically attacked me. Luckily I was always able to keep my composure and not retaliate, I knew that would really be damaging to my son and hitting a woman was not a lesson I wanted to teach him (plus I just wouldn't hit a woman if it could be avoided).

But I never ran into OM, which is a good thing because I would not felt the same kind of restraint, and likely would of ended up in jail.

With that said, to anyone going through this now, just remember that it to shall pass. Best to know how you want to handle yourself in these types of situations so that you don't get caught up in the moment and instead have a plan on how you want to handle it. Keep in mind that what your going through will be a distant memory in the not to distant future, but you will need to live with the actions you take now, so be prepared to handle yourself accordingly when the moment presents.