25 the disrespect thing I was referring to was compared to last time. Meaning here we go with OW pictures. It is what it is. I guess that's maybe why it doesn't hurt as bad?
Okay and on the topic of my friend challenging him etc. I don't mind that one bit but she told him things and called him out on things I said in confidence and specifically asked her not to say. She told him how she knows he hasn't called the kids since we've been gone. That he's being a terrible father that he doesn't acknowledge my existence in the house etc etc. I could careless what she says based on what she sees but I was just frustrated she had to pull the cards of what she knows straight from my mouth. She apologized because she said she slipped but still. What's done is done though.
Yes and make things worse I mean push him to pull finances.... I was trying to fly under the radar until he got served so now I feel like this just floored the gas pedal.
The rest I get. It's his narrative. the people that know me a fb know us know the truth and those that don't aren't of my concern because I wouldn't have been friends with them to begin with.
Is it too much to ask for to just be left alone so I can enjoy my trip ? I mean when we are in town he could give 2 you know what's. He doesn't do anything with the boys he doesn't acknowledge my existence he'll he never even texts asking anything so now that we're out of town and my friend called him out he's going to be involved and act like he cares?
Now I've received 3 texts already with him asking about the kids. Which aggravates me More because he's going to pull this crap now that someone told him he was a POS father.
I've thought about sending him a message saying you can contact the boys at any time on their iMessage or asking if he wants to split to cost of a phone for s10 so that he can reach the boys that way. This way maybe he will leave me be. So far all I do is just say good or great etc.
