Originally Posted By: Coconut
I'm really glad that you are in a better place now but it does make me sad you are s far away. I wish you were closer to son because he needs you. You are a wonderful father to him.

While I realize that this could be interpreted as her saying she wishes I still lived back in FL because it makes her sad that I'm so far AND that it would ALSO be great for son, my interpretation is just that she wishes I was around more often for son.

But with either interpretation, I still don't believe I would buy into a reconciliation. For now, I will continue to just let it be, see how I feel as the next couple of months go by. If she follows up and tells me if she wants to change her name back I will finish the D form and send it to her so she can get it signed, but I won't follow up with her to ask if she doesn't reach out to me.

I'm not naturally good at just letting things sit, but for now, that's what i'll do.


M - 9 1/2 years
5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA
10/31/16 - We sold house
01/10/18 - D Finalized