TBH the picture of them didn't hurt AS bad as I thought it would have... I was more angry that he would be that disrespectful again. do you say "that disrespectful again" b/c he was with her, or is lying again, or that she posted it?
Btw, my prediction - he will say he did "not know she was posting it! AND besides, it was innocent!" and you are overreacting which MAKES him want to leave....
(stomps feet)
He told my friend she's just a coworker and it means nothing. My friend told him if you have a wife and 3 children the last thing you should be doing right now. He of course gave all the right answers and she told him you aren't going to con me.
I really don't want people involved because I don't want it getting any worse.
like how? He's public now. I'm asking.
I'm already frustrated about everything she said last night because I know he feels backed ina corner and like she said he's VERY concerned what others think about him. She said he is so self absorbed it's disgusting. So I really just don't want him knowing I care enough to discuss anything. this^^ confuses me. Your friend is also his friend, right? So she said what was on her mind and challenged him.
Would you be more upset if she did as your dad and uncle do, which is to pretend all is still fine.
I haven't responded to any messages from him that aren't about the kids. What's to say? You want him out? Okay fair enough, that's a topic...
I can't remember if I also told you guys he told my friend I ran away with the kids to NC that I packed up and just left didn't tell him. It's a lie obviously I called him about it. He said I ran away from our problems and that me leaving to NC was the nail in the coffin for him. It sealed the deal that this can't be fixed.
massive lunatic projection...also right out of the playbook. Eye rollllllll and moving on... It's just anything to blame me. If it wasn't me going to NC it would have been something else. That's why my biggest concern is to not fuel his narrative.
ahem..."anything to blame me....would have been something else...THAT'S why my biggest concern is to not fuel his narrative".
Oh T3, everything & anything you do FUELS HIS NARRATIVE -b/c it's HIS narrative.
Don't live in his narrative. Write your own, based on reality.
We're supposed to come back Wednesday but I may extend the trip through the weekend. Not sure. I am in NO hurry to get back to his BS. Just save the texts or emails where you inform him of any plans about the kids.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
