Agreed with Maybell

I'm confused by what you mean by not wanting to fuel his narrative.

Are you worried about what others think?

Do you believe the general public would believe that a woman with 3 kids including an infant would spontaneously, insanely kick her h out of the marital home for no reason?

OR leave for the mountains driving all alone with her kids, telling no one and for no reason?

NOT THAT IT ^^^ MATTERS, but no, that's not going to happen w/ 90% of "listeners."
No normal person would believe that.

Anyhow...

By delaying your return , do you delay other things like filing?

Can you track the finances still?

I'm worried about delaying the D filing, from a financial perspective.


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change