Hmmmm good questions. Me and W a long time ago discussed boundaries, maybe 5 years ago. My main one was if you ever become unhappy, let me know. No affairs because I will never put up with it. Now one year later after affair I'm still here. So what will I accept and consequences of disrespect, I'm really not sure yet. As far as where to go from here, not sure either but its going to start with a break. This daily contact is really getting to me. I figure she will either find losing me as a loss or she will be happy to lose me. Either way I wont be stuck in limbo.
M 1.5 years, her affair was before 1 year T 7 Years
