Thanks for the clarification, Sandi2. It is obvious that much thought and consideration goes into the insight that you share.
I would love to hear your take on my Ws most recent behavior.
I know it probably won't really matter in the big picture but I think it might help others. If I hadn't been in this boat before I would easily fall for a short stretch of good behavior. I have to remind my self that she BDed a D on me just a week ago.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.