I'm tired of you disrespecting me and our marriage. I've held myself out emotionally and sexually for a year for you. You tell me your proud of all I accomplished and wish we were not here. You say you wish OM was me. If you go on this 7 day cruise with OM, I'm out. No friendship nothing, kiss me goodbye.
Is it unreasonable? No, I dont think so.
Does it get you closer to your goals? Also, no, I dont think so.
My opinion line by line: I'm tired of you disrespecting me and our marriage. This line Im OK with.
I've held myself out emotionally and sexually for a year for you. I guess Im not sure what your point is here. This is YOUR choice. What exactly do you expect from her based on this comment? Do you think because you didnt stray, she should be....ashamed? remorseful?....or should she instead realize what a paragon of virtue you are? Im just not sure what your intent is by calling this out.
You tell me your proud of all I accomplished and wish we were not here. You say you wish OM was me. I guess this is OK. Im not really sure what this has to do with anything though. It feels off topic.
If you go on this 7 day cruise with OM, I'm out. No friendship nothing, kiss me goodbye. Again, Im not really sure what youre trying to get at. How is this cruise more disrespectful than anything else she has done. It feels like an arbitrary line in the sand you are drawing. Why here? Why now?
If I were in her shoes, I wouldnt know how to respond either.
