My son and I were walking in a park and ran into my W with her OM. I videoed the encounter. I simply asked the guy "Didn't I ask you to leave my wife alone." He responded by saying "Yes, but that was before..." he stopped talking. I panned my phone to my W, called her name and said "This is a disgrace". I quickly walked back to my car with my son. My son was a wreck and I had to console him like never before.
The W didn't even come to our S. She stayed with the OM! When I came home she confronted me and said "Have you calmed down yet?". I said "I am calm", "I have nothing to say to you, you've been lying to me this whole time." I said "Talk to my lawyer". Then she said "What do you think you're going to do with those pictures". I said "It was actually a video". She then said, "Well, it's not going to help you". I just walked away.
Your son is 7. Was he upset because he saw his mom with OM? Or because he witnessed his parents having a public (and to him probably confusing) confrontation?
Me: 44 H: 44 Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10 Together/Married: 22 years H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16 H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16