I guess I filed it because W was 150% certain this is the only path for us and I have never been through this before so didn't know what to do. Others advised me to file to protect myself.

Right now, just trying to file other paperwork to meet court deadlines.

I could file a 90 day extension or for dismissal, but W would have to sign and agree so I would have to have that discussion with her. The forms for this say it is extension or dissmissal to allow couple to reconcile so I don't know that she would agree as there are no signs of that.

So that's where its at.


Me: 47 W: 44
M: 3 yrs; 10 years together
D (Hers): 2000
BD: 06/01/2017
S: 06/01/2017