Had a great time at the movies with the kids.

Got back and a while later my W starting texting me (middle of the night there), that she couldn't sleep.

I decided to ignore the messages and went out (got my sister to come over and babysit). Just went to a movie, but was nice to get out.

I only responded this morning to the message and even then with a very brief message.

Is this mean or a decent 180?

Me: 47 Wife: 39
Together: 20 yrs Married: 16 yrs
S:9, S:7, D:5, D:1
BD: 7/4/2017
Separation (though living in the same house) 7/20/2017
?????