He ended up meeting up with a mutual friend at a local bar.
She asked him what was up. He told her he's done. That I've made everything a mess. I'm accusing him of cheating. That marriage counseling didn't work and he's just done. That there's no fixing this.
She told him he was a POS and that she doesn't believe for a second that there's nobody else. He said he wanted to talk to her husband and owe him an explanation. She told him he will punch you in the face if you tell him you're leaving your family. She said H seemed shocked.
He told her I'm beautiful and he loves me and I'm a great person and that it's just him. She asked why do you have to do this. He said it's just me. I don't know what's wrong wth me. I mean doing steroids I bought the motorcycle I don't know what is wrong with me.
He text her after he left the bar and said thanks for listening and understanding his decision that it's over and that he is going to try and be as fair to me as possible through the divorce.
I told her I wished she would not have talked to him but what's done is done. She told me he's done. It's over. I need to move on. That he's lying and so self absorbed and worried about himself. He told her we tried marriage counseling and there's no improvement.
She said H what are you doing can we fix this can I help. Can you not wal k out on your family. What can we do to make this right. He said I don't know. To be honest I'm done. I want to move on with my life.
She said she told him if that's his choice then don't expect to have a relationship with her and her husband and he replied really? And she said yes.
She said she told him I don't even know you. You're not the H I know. He said I don't know what's going on with me. I just know I don't want to be with her anymore.
It stings but I've heard it all before.
He then sends me a text after he met with her 'goodnight, hope the baby sleeps good for you tonight'
Go F yourself. Stop trying to have a paper trail. Don't try to be nice to me so that OUR friends won't hate you for what you're doing. Dlck
