Depends on what your liabilities are i suppose. I have a signed mediated agreement right now which is sort of binding as far as property and custody goes. Her L wants to finalize it into a final divorce decree and i have the draft, but i am in the same boat as you in that i don't feel good when i even think about working on it.
I would give her a date and sluff it off. Sounds like she hasn't gotten everything together anyway, so technically you are waiting on her, right? ;-)
Again, Gook luck.
Me 51, Wife 44; Married 4; Together 10; HSD20, XWSD13, XWSS14, XWSS17 Kids Together D4, D1.52 W Moves Out: 03/16/17 W Files : 03/17/17 D Final: 10/23/17