Yes. Probably.

I like the idea of being straight forward:

"This isn't working for me anymore, H. You wanted out. Go."

The question is: what happens if/when he doesn't leave? Lol.

M: 40 H: 44
Married 14 years
S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M
2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart
Piecing: April 2014