New here, really need advice

[AMartin]

Thanks. I haven't been on a forum like this in ages. Sorry about the multiple posting.

Is this a conscious manipulation on his part? I've read a little bit about passive-aggression, but not recently. I'm trying to get thru Divorce Remedy & Divorce Busting while I'm out of the house. I can only read in small bursts, though. It's so painful. I'll be home tomorrow to go with my son to the doctor, and take the dog to the vet. My son's coming back with me for the night. I'm trying to send a message to my husband - this is what it will be like. I will not be your friend, because I won't. He seems to think that we'll still be best friends even if we're not married.

I'm pretty sure that he's trying to push me into asking for a divorce so he won't be the bad guy. No, I KNOW that's what he's doing. I won't allow that. He'll have to be the one to end it. Period.