If it were me with my kids I would not say much about H instead just focus on S new adventure in college--If he asks I would also keep it neutral since you really don't know what is happening
as far as H--Mlcer behavior is like this..they are sometimes close then sometimes far depending on their moods and or what else they are into I could tell you My XH was never physical with me after Bomb but he would share more emotionally and we were friends until the D..I watched him go back and forth with wanting to talk to me, dropping by the house a lot and also not communicating at all they are confused men
AS far as your actions to leave home with no words--you can see how it goes if XH seems more or less distant by your actions MY DB coach told me back them to do behaviors that creat e closeness but sometimes nothing and no strategy will really work on. a mlcer many trial and error
I had to practicing faking it a lot with XH to get through the beginning stages to see where/what/who he would choose--
hang in
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
