For what it's worth my w moved out 7 weeks ago.....I decided to go nc except for things related to the kids.....she has been rude and cold towards me so for me she does not deserve to be in my presence or have the luxury of speaking with me about anything. My DB coach told me to treat her like a close friend......if you read sandi's stuff she seems to be against this. I am a nice guy so treating her like a close friend would continue her to be disrespectful towards me hence the opposite approach.
