Ah. I was thinking of the guidance in the section "Do a 180" in chapter 6 of Divorce Remedy.
Not the same thing.
Me: 44 H: 44 Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10 Together/Married: 22 years H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16 H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16