He has admit to his part of the failing marriage, but at the time, I was putting all the blame on him and didn't want to admit my part. After self-reflection, I realized that I was also part of the problem. I was negative, stubborn, and resistant to change. I guess it took rock bottom for me to realize that and I now know that I need to work on myself. For the longest time, I was in denial about our failing marriage until he was at his breaking point.
I really do need to work on myself so that I could be stronger with or without him. It's a little easier to detach everyday, but I have my moments where I'm really sad.
Me: 37 H: 32 S:10 D: 9 Married: 11 years Sep: 6/25/17 D filed: 7/13/17
