So as of around 4:00AM this morning, I can officially say that I dropped the damn rope. Told W that I will no longer be disrespected by her communications with OM in this home. W basically gave the "I don't have to answer to you." response. And grabbed her phone from the floor, not to check it but to say that what you have been doing with this thing is wrong. That's when W snapped, jumped on me and punched me in the face about 3 or 4 times. After that W called her father making up lies on how I grabbed her. Told her that I wanted her out of this house immediately. So I decided to contact the police to get my side on a police report. Needless to say my W jumped in the car and left. I haven't seen her since.
Prior to her leaving, FIL called me saying that his daughter said I was lying on her in regards to the whole A. All these months, I never wanted to get him involved. But since she was the one who called him up. I basically gave him a quick review of what I had been through with her. Told him I would send the evidence and give the name of our mutual friends who were aware of the A. Nothing, but silence from MIL over the phone. Then he said he would call W back. I could hear him calling W from the other room, but I assume she heard what I said and didn't answer his call.
W tried to wake S13 up and take him with her. That's when I told her that your not waking my son up in the middle of the night, taking him anywhere due to the fact that you want to be dysfunctional. W got upset and left. So a few hours ago, I contacted her best friend giving the heads up on what went down. This is the same best friend who basically had ceased all communication with her since the A began. He said that W left a message around 4:00am, but didn't bother to check it. When he did check it all he heard was crying and then it quickly hung up. Best friend says that he has no intent on calling her back, because he is through with her lies and manipulation.
So its been 10 hours and I haven't heard a thing from W. And honestly I could careless. Don't know if she went to her sisters place or tried making contact with potential OM just to piss me off. But honestly I don't give a damn. I refuse to live a life of dysfunction and that's what she has brought to the table these last couple of months. So tomorrow, I'm going to see a lawyer and get this divorce ball seriously rolling.