Thanks for the advice and good points.

We had agreed to do this set of paperwork by a certain date. Now that I think about it though, first of, W didn't hold up her end of it on time or in complete fashion and technically, it doesn't have to be done until a few week later than what we agreed to.

So I think what I will do is nothing right now. I won't work on it, I won't update her on it, I just won't do anything.

If/when she happens to ask what's up, I will just say I've been too busy (which is somewhat true) and at that point I will have three options...

1) Say I'll get to it by xx date and blow it off again
2) Take the protect myself route and finish this set but tell her she owns submitting and the rest of the D
3) Tell her it is her D so I'm done doing it

My mostly likely choice right now is #2. In our current status, I am protected decently in the D because we've agreed to a fair split. If I follow #3, I risk that she won't do it and will involve a L and the L will convince her to go after more than we agreed to which can hurt me more.


Me: 47 W: 44
M: 3 yrs; 10 years together
D (Hers): 2000
BD: 06/01/2017
S: 06/01/2017