Well how about this, let her own the process since she is the one that is leaving the M? The more you read around here the more you'll see people being told that you aren't in limbo, you ARE moving on and doing what YOU need. I was told that too BTW and they are right. You may being equating limbo to not in a relationship and they are two different things. Just my opinion of course.
Perhaps her leaving out things in the paperwork is a way of having to interact once again. Not only that, but if you are the one that always follows through with the ppwk, then why not do a 180 on that? Not only that, but you are providing her a reason why she left. She has already posted on FB that you are the villain for doing that. Drag your feet and just detach and let her continue the process.
Me 51, Wife 44; Married 4; Together 10; HSD20, XWSD13, XWSS14, XWSS17 Kids Together D4, D1.52 W Moves Out: 03/16/17 W Files : 03/17/17 D Final: 10/23/17