"H, this isn't working for me. I need you out by next week." (Period)
And if he brings up another casual "Shoot the breeze/hello" discussion, try
"H, we are splitting up. So let's keep focus on the boys. They'll be back Wednesday"...
I don't think ending your comments with questions or conditions is wise b/c it'll suck you in
and chances are good you will either escalate, to your regret
or cave - to your regret.
Whatever you do, stay on message and say 1/10 of what you feel like saying.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016