Not sure what I have

[KGuy]

Sounds to me like she may feel the same way about the D paperwork that you do, although your friends could also be partially correct. It appears her focus is on the EA/her hobby and what is making her feel good at the moment.

Taking it another way though, wy are you working on the D paperwork? Seems to me if you both have excuses to not do it, it will just postpone it further giving more opportunity to turn it around.

Still GAL and detach though.

I am in the same boat with the D paperwork and just haven't had the heart to review and provided comments to make it happen. The W and her L are really pushing it through to make it fast. I disagree that such a life decision should be done so quickly.