Hi Sandi2,

Yes, I think you're right.

To be honest I spent so much time focusing on work and family that I guess I didn't really have anything else.

My buddies do get together usually once a week, but I was travelling for work on 90% of the times.

So, not sure what to do. I can't travel for work at the moment as I have the kids.

Me: 47 Wife: 39
Together: 20 yrs Married: 16 yrs
S:9, S:7, D:5, D:1
BD: 7/4/2017
Separation (though living in the same house) 7/20/2017
?????