A familiar story with questions..

[RR17]

Yes, Sandi's rules and maybe 180.

As I am pulling away, as well as becoming the best version of me, I get confused as to how to behave.

Should I empty the dishwasher or leave it for her?

For years we have both gone to bed around 10pm. I have trouble sleeping and require a routine to try to get some sleep. Well at least gone up and prepared for bed and watched TV in MBR.

Now, she has been on the couch for the last several nights. Who knows why? Punish me, punish herself. One last chat with OM. IDK

Last night I went to bed as usual and a couple hour later around midnight she comes in and starts preparing for bed and gets in bed. Of course, this wakes me up. I'm sure she realized the risk.
She says sorry. But not a very sensor sorry.
I said that's alright, even though I know that this was inconsiderate and that as she falls asleep in no time I will be up for hours.

Now can I even say anything about this?

Damage is done. I'm up before 7am and going to church with or without W.