One more thing and I say this for all. I got the impression from a post that the impression was that I was trying to manipulate the W.

I inadvertently did that 4 years ago and learned that that feels like progress but is false.
I am simply not the begging, blubbering, pleading pathetic pile of hurt I was the last go around.
I do love my W, but as you said at some point enough is enough.

M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.