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Re: 6 month affair he won't give up dale165 #2753867 07/29/17 05:44 AM
Joined: Jul 2017 Posts: 48 G Guzzard Member
Guzzard Member G Joined: Jul 2017 Posts: 48	Originally Posted By: dale165 As 25 mentioned, using someone could happen. That is one big thing keeping me from doing it. It is just my opinion, but date when you are ready to take another person's feelings into account. My sitch is new and fresh yet I have had an opportunity or two that if I were not M, I would have jumped on. I can't do it though because I wouldn't be able to take the other person's feelings into account and that would make me feel much worse than I already do. Just my 2 cents. Me: 47 W: 44 M: 3 yrs; 10 years together D (Hers): 2000 BD: 06/01/2017 S: 06/01/2017

Re: 6 month affair he won't give up dale165 #2753876 07/29/17 07:47 AM
Joined: Jun 2017 Posts: 16 V Viking OP New Member
OP Viking New Member V Joined: Jun 2017 Posts: 16	We have been regularly intimate. That only ended a few weeks ago. We were sleeping apart but there was no other form of separation - none.

Re: 6 month affair he won't give up 25yearsmlc #2753879 07/29/17 08:16 AM
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OP Viking New Member V Joined: Jun 2017 Posts: 16	We were regularly intimate up until about 3 weeks ago. We were sleeping in separate places, but we were not separated in any other way at all throughout the entire 3 years.

Re: 6 month affair he won't give up Viking #2753881 07/29/17 08:22 AM
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OP Viking New Member V Joined: Jun 2017 Posts: 16	25: My MIL thinks another man will be the most effective way to possibly reconcile as well. I don't want to use anyone. I would only see someone I was legitimately interested in, and of course be totally honest. I'm not the liar/ cheater in this narrative.

Re: 6 month affair he won't give up Viking #2753907 07/29/17 03:29 PM
Joined: Apr 2006 Posts: 13,511 Likes: 1 CA- now East coast 2 25yearsmlc Member
25yearsmlc Member 2 Joined: Apr 2006 Posts: 13,511 Likes: 1 CA- now East coast	Originally Posted By: Viking 25: My MIL thinks another man will be the most effective way to possibly reconcile as well. I don't want to use anyone. I would only see someone I was legitimately interested in, and of course be totally honest. I'm not the liar/ cheater in this narrative. I get it. I am about to date someone I knew long ago. I'm comfortable with him but not sure if the chemistry is there now. (I'll find out) But I already apologized in advance to him for being the first guy I date after 35 years of m and 2 of dating. I'm SURE I'll have some weirdnesses. At least I'm self aware, I think... M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 2016 X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016 = CLOSURE 4 ME Embrace the Change

Re: 6 month affair he won't give up 25yearsmlc #2754050 07/30/17 11:23 AM
Joined: Jun 2017 Posts: 16 V Viking OP New Member
OP Viking New Member V Joined: Jun 2017 Posts: 16	Gotta start somewhere! I am an intelligent, educated woman. I assure you we were not "separated". Was I misled and lied to? Fed half truths? Apparently I was, but separated? No, I wasn't. I want to repair my marriage and keep my family together, but I guess I'll put some feelers out and date. Hopefully/maybe/ I won't want him anymore when all is said and done.

Re: 6 month affair he won't give up Viking #2754478 08/01/17 07:06 AM
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OP Viking New Member V Joined: Jun 2017 Posts: 16	Now WH appears to be micing.

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