As 25 mentioned, using someone could happen. That is one big thing keeping me from doing it.
It is just my opinion, but date when you are ready to take another person's feelings into account. My sitch is new and fresh yet I have had an opportunity or two that if I were not M, I would have jumped on. I can't do it though because I wouldn't be able to take the other person's feelings into account and that would make me feel much worse than I already do. Just my 2 cents.
Me: 47 W: 44 M: 3 yrs; 10 years together D (Hers): 2000 BD: 06/01/2017 S: 06/01/2017