So at this point I don't call her, text her or do anything else unless it is related to the pick up/transfer of our children. When that happens it is short, exchange a few pleasantries and off I go. I just make sure that I look good when I see her and am upbeat. At this time she has shown no interest in having anything to do with me. The only comment she has made is that my new haircut makes me look younger. No comment on my weight loss, new clothes or anything. Everyone tells me it is going to take time and to hang in there. I do feel that I am about 85 to 90% detached at this time. So I know I have some more work to do.
