Love it Leah.

He is supposed to come here this am to give me the POA for selling the house and to pick up the last of his stuff. I made a huge disorganized pile in the middle of the garage. I felt not one moment of sadness or grief. Just excitement at the thought of never having to see any of his stuff or the crap that he has made me haul around for years. This move is going to be a breeze.

Treasur, everything you say is true but it doesn't change anything. You and your marriage mean nothing to him right now. Don't let him mean anything to you. I will never be with someone again who doesn't want to be with me. I could care less if he thinks I am not good enough for him, I know the opposite is true.