Hi I would like to know if the following was unreasonable. I understand that only I know what feels right but still 99% of what I read here I thoroughly enjoy. If you read prior posts sorry, was having a really bad week.
Quick recap:
Wife left unannounced 10-11 months ago. Came home and 99% of her belongings were gone except wedding stuff. She originally told she left so I can prove to her I loved her. I was a distant husband. Maybe weeks after she left I put in a tremendous amount of effort in this. In February 2017 we were doing great, at least I thought. We communicated great. Then in March 2017 I discovered she lived with OM and has been with him months before she left our home. I found out she blames me for it. He's the second coming of Crist blah blah. I begged and pleaded all through much of March and April and part May. I quit contacting her and she contacts me asking if I'm mad, help her with resumes jobs etc, emotional support etc. I obliged every time. She has generally been nice but treats me like Im an idiot. Im tired of just talking like we are friends.
So I told her last night:
I'm tired of you disrespecting me and our marriage. I've held myself out emotionally and sexually for a year for you. You tell me your proud of all I accomplished and wish we were not here. You say you wish OM was me. If you go on this 7 day cruise with OM, I'm out. No friendship nothing, kiss me goodbye.
Her Response:
I just don't know what to say
M 1.5 years, her affair was before 1 year T 7 Years
