Hey Viking, lets throw religion and morals to the side on the dating thing. Based on people's experiences I read here is that it will probably muddy the waters. If you have kids that may make it even more difficult in the sense that they are trying to figure out what's going on. Plus you may bring some baggage to a new R that only complicates things further.
I personally wouldn't think its right but I'm also a firm believer in doing what YOU think is right. No one feels exactly the same and has exactly the same mindset. Im sure the odds say no don't do it until this deal is resolved but hey if that's what you want go for it.
FYI - I just remembered reading some posts before that they waited years to do so and even some cases they still was not ready.
M 1.5 years, her affair was before 1 year T 7 Years