Wow, Lois, you are an inspiration. I love your confident strength. I needed to see this today. I'm going to attempt to go back and read your threads, although this has been a challenge to me as to how to find old threads when posters change the titles and if there's not a link in each one to the previous one. I know we can't name books on here, but can you hint somehow at the book you refer to about abandonment? I'd love to read it. Thanks for posting your update. I hope I can find your old threads.
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"First the pain, then the rising." Glennon Doyle Melton