Thanks Joseph9 - really helps to have some supportive words and motivation from here.
Heading out to the gym in a couple of hours with the kids and then looking forward to all the guests coming round and having the house filled with noise and laughter!
Me: 47 Wife: 39 Together: 20 yrs Married: 16 yrs S:9, S:7, D:5, D:1 BD: 7/4/2017 Separation (though living in the same house) 7/20/2017 ?????