I want to scream at the top of my lungs about what he's doing and that it's not fair (yes I know life isn't fair) but I am a good person and took my vows seriously for better or WORSE. I've supported him through good and bad and this is how I am repayed...
Hi T384, Know that you are not alone. My feelings are similar. I stuck with my W through a number of challenges and she left. I, too, took our commitment to each other seriously. Though not religious, the commitment we made was to each other and support each other in good times and bad. I agree with you, it's very frustrating and hurtful. I don't really look at it as being repayed, I loved unconditionally and W didn't, perhaps didn't at all. I thought we had it, but if not, then I need to find someone else anyway. I feel for you with children and how hard that must be. Know you are not alone though.
Me: 47 W: 44 M: 3 yrs; 10 years together D (Hers): 2000 BD: 06/01/2017 S: 06/01/2017
