Thanks for the comments. Yes, it is difficult as she seems to look so well (& beautiful) and is going out every night (though we have agreed to remain monogamous over the next few months - but I do have a concern for an EA).
Your idea for the facetime calls is really interesting. You are right, I have a down after the calls, but it also does me good to see her. And, I always answer with a smile and tell her everything's wonderful here, so I think that 180 may be worth the pain of the drop after the call.
I still don't understand how my life became this overnight!
Me: 47 Wife: 39 Together: 20 yrs Married: 16 yrs S:9, S:7, D:5, D:1 BD: 7/4/2017 Separation (though living in the same house) 7/20/2017 ?????
