WAS wanting to move across the world - help

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Thanks Joseph9 - you helped me out alot as to how to handle this evening.

I am all dressed up and waiting for the guests - wearing clothes that I wouldn't have fit into 4 weeks ago!

I will avoid any R talk - though this woman is really close to my wife - but will avoid it.

I am going to the gym every day, it's a great outlet for me and am reading alot, but mainly relationship books.

Am keeping the kids entertained all the time, so they are over the moon!

Thanks again for the support