I'm feeling really frustrated today...W seems intent on talking about financial things and "if we split, _ _ _ _"
..I'm trying to do everything I can to GAL and 180... ..I'm starting IC Tuesday..and meeting with DB coach again next Wed...I understand I'm doing these things for ME
I'm not feeling remorse from her for her A's ....
yes, it's possible her A is an exit A to leave the relationship, and I realize I need to be open to separation and/or D as a possible outcome...but it's simply not clear this is the best outcome and doesn't make sense to me...even if the R is SSM...is it not valid to ATTEMPT to work on things?
I do feel that she is in some sort of mid-life crisis..
I'd like to communicate to her that making snap judgements relating to our 10-12 R doesn't make sense..
