Just caught up a bit on yours tread, I can see why you feel that way. I went from really sad to feeling pretty good now Im just pissed all the time. W has not been an adult throughout any of this. First I come home one Friday and poof she's gone. Then she has me believing she did this for us when in reality she was living with OM the whole time. She lies about anything and everything.
I have been a very distant husband but everything she has told me was wrong I worked on. I know she thinks about coming home but she cant hurt OMs feelings (crazy right). I worked my ass off to put her through PA school and paid for basically every last one of her expenses for at least 5 years. Soon as she gets a good job and makes 6 figures she bounces. Now she has to pay for him bc he's a bartender and films church events and weddings (go figure) on the side. But she says he's so proud of her bc he posts pictures of them on fb all the time. Flipping unbelievable.
I know I need to take a chill pill.
M 1.5 years, her affair was before 1 year T 7 Years
