Jim, I'm sorry that your having to go through this.. your son's visit to College should be a big deal, but I know how everything going on with your WW can kind of put a shadow on everything else in life.
it will get easier, and isn't permanent, one way or another everything going on right now will be a distant memory and you WILL be happy again.
I think you made a sound decision on the separate room, you did what was best for your son and that is commendable.
The disrespect of your WW is incredulous, to ask you if you want her to leave, get a straight answer, and then completely ignore your desire is abhorrent.
I suspect that hurt you feel about the betrayel and disrespect will turn into anger soon, please be prepared to deal with that and not lash out at your WW. It will not help, and will hurt future chances at reconciliation. Talk to a counselor about dealing with anger before it starts rearing its ugly head.
M - 9 1/2 years 5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA 10/31/16 - We sold house 01/10/18 - D Finalized
