I scratch my head with my MLCr and the OM issue when I think about it which is not often. After the touch and go and me moving out, I just assumed since I gave her the green light to go and be happy with OM and I wanted the D, she would have jumped at it. However there has not been a mention of him in the 1 1/2 years since .... they may be closer than ever, or may not have talked to each other I could not say ... prior to all this stuff it was like she couldn't help but tell me how amazing he was throughout replay.
Like you ... I developed a love for Theory #3 which for me involved a nice motorcycle ride.
Oh may we all live by "theory 3!" whether it be by car, motorcycle, bike or running shoes!
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced
For whatever reason your exW has now here own place and it has not gone unnoticed to her that this could help open a door with the girls. Heck theory 4 could be that she did this to enable a rekindling with them.
Her efforts may be weak but are becoming consistent. Give her a brownie point for that and then go take the top off your Jeep
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together
I like what Roist said, with this caveat: Whatever is going on with eew doesn't matter. What does matter is taking the top off the jeep and going for a spin. Take a camera with you in case you see an eagle xo
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver
Everyone should go topless...I mean...in their Jeep. HAHA! Unfortunately, it has either been too wet or too hot to be comfortable here in SETX. Hopefully I can at least take the freedom tops off this weekend. It looks like I will have to wait to get the complete top and doors off for a little while.
Irish I hope all is well with you and your girls.
Me 49 W46 T25 M22 S22 D18 S13 W had EA Apr-Jul 2016 Dropped Bomb 7/9/16 ILYBINILWYA HER DIVORCE IS FINAL...8/18/17 Dropping the rope to SURVIVE & THRIVE!!!
I used to have a '98 Jeep TJ when I first started working a "real job" back in Toronto after giving up my free-lance gigs. On hot summer days I'd go doors off down to work. On the way back, stuck in traffic during my almost 3 hour commute it would start top down, then shirt off, then shoes off, then pant legs rolled up.
I think it was the fear of seeing me arrive home naked on a hot day that had my now STBXW insist that my next vehicle have air conditioning
I loved that thing except for the cost to keep it on the road and the way it would spin out on ice in the winter. Now I drive a boring Corolla that has 430,000km on it. Not sure what I'll get next ....
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells
Andrew...There's nothing like a Jeep! Just sayin'!
Me 49 W46 T25 M22 S22 D18 S13 W had EA Apr-Jul 2016 Dropped Bomb 7/9/16 ILYBINILWYA HER DIVORCE IS FINAL...8/18/17 Dropping the rope to SURVIVE & THRIVE!!!
Nothing like 1940s technology , rust and underpowered engimes. I had a 4.0 litre Cherokee for a few years back in the day and have to agree , nothing li ke it except mayne a lada
Well I'm on my 4th wrangler . Latest one I got this week. Yes upgraded my 2014 model to a WILLIS wrangler 2017 with slight modifications ;-)
Nothing like a jeep , even in traffic. No stress ever can undo the feeling the jeep ride gives you.
Job, D17 is on her last 3 courses then she goes for her license exam. Really excited. Of course she wants a Jeep :-)
Bttrfly, are you rubbing those eagles in ... I keep a lookout but nothing in my area.
Roist, I would love to give XW a little credit but A songbird filled me in on xw's reasoning. Well it's money related. She will not combine her salary with OM. So her child support, which is nothing to begin with will be less. Also om's financial aid goes up with XW moving out . Ohh the joys of soulmate living . They live 2 min walk.
Peace, yes we do get there. I'm luckier than most, my MlC is missing in action. Haven't seen her face to face in over a year and a half. Even then it was with a mediator and she avoided eye contact. So June 2015 was the real last face to face. Made it so much easier to disconnect
Cali, love your thinking .. you not knowing if your ex is with OM or not shows you are disconnected . Not your concern. I'm jealous of you buy the way. California ... I get 3-4 months of soft top on my jeep. The rest of the year brrrrr. You get to ride free for a full 12
Andrew... 430000kms on the corella . Amazing . Toyota's are build to last . I had a celica 1996 with the round headlights.. the engine was solid, no mechanical issues at all.
Thanks to all for the birthday wishes for D17.
Love you all
Irish
M51 XW43 (38 at bd) BD1 MAY 30 2015 BD2 JUNE 25 2015 by text moved out Aug 2 2015 left both Daughters 13 and 15 (now 18-20) Her divorce Final July 26 2016 Last time she saw her kids Aug 2 2015
