I wish there was an edit button, but I went back through all my texts with her from Jan through now, not a single text from her about me, only about son, taxes and a joint acct that she was asking me to close.
The only text to show she thought about me at all was a field trip form that he had to fill out and he put his biological fathers first name, then scratched it out and put my name as father, she wanted me to know he did that.
As for the text I sent her asking how she was:
Me - I've been thinking about you a lot, maybe because son is coming to visit me, I'm not sure, but are you ok? Are you happy?
WW - Thank you. No, I'm not at all but I'm just trying to figure it all out.
ww - (a bunch of stuff about sons medical condition) I would like you to try talking to him when he's up there but I need to fill you in on everything she said first.
me - ok, just let me know when you want to talk
ww - ok, i'll call you in a little bit if you have some time?
me - yeah that's fine.
I then kinda hung around my phone for the next 5 hours and she never called until a week later.
M - 9 1/2 years 5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA 10/31/16 - We sold house 01/10/18 - D Finalized