[quote=Coconut]ok, I can see the general consensus is that my post (which cover just about every interaction with her and my thoughts) indicate that I'm not ready. I won't be in FL for 2 months (and I can't file until then) so I will mentally step back and see how I feel.
I reached out to her today, and I forgot but about a month ago I also reached out and told her I was thinking about her and wondered how she's doing (she responded "definitely not happy, just trying to figure things out"). Well this is news to me. And you did not see this as her accepting your invitation to talk? Because that is what it screams out to me. I am not in a place that I want to try and force open a door if she's got it locked, but I've at least shown her that I'm open for discussions. yes you reached out to open a dialogue and she said yes...the ball was in your court.
Was the next message she got from you, about the kid's remark and a divorce?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
