Hmm, Coconut, quite a big difference in tone between the post about the texts and your responses to me...in fact, I had to scroll up and check you wrote both of them because at first I thought it was two different people.
Are you torn between head and heart here? Between love and fear or pride? From the outside it really seems as if the two of you have a shot here, but you've both been filing in the silence with a lot of assumptions. Maybe there are ways for you both to get what you need?
Not even going to get into the idiocy of divorcing in case you win the lottery and she gets half!
Me: 53 H:38 T:20 M:14 BD ILYB etc 10/15, H diagnosed severe depression S 1/16 PA 4/16 H filed 1/17
