Wife wants to leave marriage 3

[Holding]

But the WW just seems like a huge weight at this point. And the more she acts the way she does the more things I learn not to like about her. Am I the only one starting to feel this way?

Not at all. After BD we all want desperately to save things. We have a distorted vision of the R and our contribution to its demise. As time goes on, we start to realize all the issues on both sides. We begin to see the WW/WH as a different person, and we question if we want this person around any more.