PS My H is probably a recovering Nice Guy too (family stuff) and I still believe that behind all of his horrible choices, he is a good person and worth loving. He was a good H and a good man and a good friend for almost 20 years before this.
Me: 53 H:38 T:20 M:14 BD ILYB etc 10/15, H diagnosed severe depression S 1/16 PA 4/16 H filed 1/17