Save yourself the energy and stay silent about the OW/concerts & what you know, how you are "not stupid", etc. Your message will be diluted by repeating what you have already told him several times.
Truly. I cannot emphasize this^^^ enough.
If words about what you know - or questions about HOW he can do this sh1tty wrong thing after another baby/house, mattered enough to him to stop, he'd have stopped.
Saying you are "not stupid" again, will not make you look smarter or stronger.
T3 I know how much this hurts. I know why you resist what we are saying, even in the face of the evidence, and his own words. I know why you question so much.
I get it.
It may be time for ..whatever it takes for you to look forward & not feel "stupid." (plus she's funny as he11)
But T3, Please don't get stuck or steeped in your regrets.
If you want to "look back to learn from", -- do it LATER
& for now - just get in the "lifeboat for survival mode".
Do right by your sons and by you.
We are all rooting for you.
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