read your own words here... She’s never mentioned wanting to get divorced, I’m the only one that has ever brought it up, and the previous time I brought it up, she actually said “It’s not what I want, but if that’s what you want I will agree to it”… ha, DB’d by my WW…
She said several times that she always saw us getting back together in the future. I think my problem with that is, that I know the only way it would work is if we BOTH put in work, and her inability to reach out at all in the last year indicates to me that she either isn’t willing, or able, to do that work. but you have not reached out to her either, until you told her you were filing for Divorce...and you moved away
I know that it can often be several years before reconciliation occurs, but Blu, I really don’t think I want to wait anymore. And it’s not about me wanting to find someone else, because I have no desire to try and seek someone else out right now, but I just feel like this is something I need to do for myself. dig deeper
I can’t really say why I feel that way, I’m trying to figure out what makes me feel like I want to be divorced, and I just can’t put my finger on it. It’s almost like I don’t feel whole, and I feel like finalizing the D will help me get back to being whole. Of course it could also be that I’m the type of person that if something needs to be done, I’d rather do it right now rather than put it off until tomorrow, so maybe knowing that it’s going to need to be done at some point, my natural instinct is to just go ahead and get it done. Have you seen an IC recently? There is some confusion in this this^^ and I'd want more clarity before I'd file.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
